By Naomi Cook
“Give a Man a Fish, Feed Him For a Day. Teach a Man to Fish, Feed Him For a Lifetime.” This Chinese proverb explains the importance of education and in turn the value of responsibility and accountability for one’s self.
Kids learn by example when it comes to actions. Walking, talking, laughing and more…Have you thought about how the state of your home can impact a child’s organizational skills as well? Since television shows on hoarding have been appearing, the world has learned how impactful the disease really is, especially on children.
On a lighter note, children are visual creatures, and that is something good to understand when it comes to helping them get (and stay) organized. Read below for ideas that can help at any stage of life.
Preschool aged children – These little guys will need your help. Appeal to their visual senses, while also turning clean up into a game, and they should easily grasp organizing fundamentals such as:
- Using Simple Storage: Those fabric cube bins with handles seem to come in every color these days and are appearing in more and more stores. They are also soft and easy for little hands to carry around. Better yet, they can slip into most bookcases easily.
- Using Pictures: For toys small enough to fit into the bins, attach pictures of the toys, showing which items go in which bin. For bigger items, attach pictures to the wall over its “parking spot”.
- Using Size Arrangement: For books, dolls, and game boxes.
- Using Color Arrangement: For stuffed animals, construction paper, and art supplies.
Elementary school aged children – These guys are learning independence through a full day at school, but will still need your help. Let them continue to build on the fundamental organizing skills and let them input fun new ideas. At this stage, arrange the bars and shelves in their closet for them to be able to pick out their own clothes. Work with them to group like items together by size, like short sleeve shirts, long sleeve shirts, jeans and pants. After that, if you’re really adventurous, work on arranging each of those groupings into color order.
You can also introduce them to one of my favorite tools…the Label Maker! Let them have fun labeling where everything goes. Choose tapes in their favorite color and a fun font! Warning…labeling can be addictive! Supervise them or you will be going to your local office supply store every day to buy more tape cartridges!
Middle school aged children/ High School Aged Children – These guys have reached independence yet their schedules are filling up at this point and organizing may not be a priority. Build on the fundamental skills by introducing magnet boards, dry erase calendar boards, and assignment/activity planners.
At this stage in life, most parents will implement an allowance in exchange for doing chores around the house, including keeping their rooms organized. Money talks, so any other form of bribery isn’t really necessary!
Ultimately, you want to give your kids an appreciation for their belongings, as well as your home. By following the organizing fundamentals and building upon them gradually, you will set them off to become organized adults. In turn, they will teach their children, and when those grandchildren come to your house notice if they are sprouting buds of understanding organization. If not, tell your children that you want their years of allowance back!